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New Year. New Me.

by Heather

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January. The month of change, new beginnings, diets, carrots, water, promises, gym memberships, being a better person, more carrots, renewed hope … this is what everyone’s New Year looks like, right? I mean, I assume that we all make the same resolutions every year. I snack my way through December, bake cookies every other day, and the whole time I’m making internal promises about the number of lunges I will do and miles on the treadmill. January comes and I hit the gym, replace everything in the refrigerator with healthy food, and hide the holiday cookbooks for another year. Then something happens. It snows … well, flurries. Then Valentine’s Day comes. Hmmm, a family birthday, oh and then Easter… Yeah, you get the idea. This was the cycle that I got caught up in for years and one of two things would happen. One, nothing at all happened. Two, my weight would yo-yo so much that I had to keep three sizes of clothing in my dresser and closet. This, my friends can be rather disheartening so I did the only thing I could think to do … I stopped making resolutions.

Yes, you read that right, about three years ago I gave up making resolutions and started making life decisions that I could live with and so far, knock on wood, I’ve been happier and more successful in achieving my goals. In fact, broadening the “resolutions,” I changed the way that I looked at things and have been happier since. In other words, instead of trying to climb mountains, I baby step my way through life and that seems to make goals a lot more attainable, which means I’m successful more often, and therefore, I am able to celebrate more instead of feeling like a failure. Does that make sense at all? Let me give you a few examples.

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The Gym. I have to be honest in saying I have never enjoyed the gym. I don’t enjoy shopping for workout clothes, driving to the gym, sweating through a class or session on the treadmill, I definitely don’t like showering at the gym, and I’m not a huge fan of putting my sweaty butt back in my car. Then there is that pesky gym membership fee. The membership that I would pay for, barely use, and then berate myself for wasting; yeah, good times! I do however like to walk. Sometimes I powerwalk, sometimes I walk our pups, and other times I stroll holding my husband’s hand while our little one rides her bike. It’s not the most intense workout in the world but it is something and I was never the type of person that was intense when it comes to exercise. The point is I am moving. My body is in motion, I am doing more than I normally would, and I am enjoying myself while doing it instead of dreading the effort. Besides, my doctor says we can add it to the “win” column so I’m good to go. WIN!

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Soda. Some call it soda, others pop, and some even Coke. Where I live, everyone calls it pop but I am hip to saying soda so we will go with that. I am addicted to soda! There, I said it … like, it tastes amazing and I love it and it has always been my “thing” of choice when it comes to addictions. The problem however, is that it’s bad for me. Like, really bad. You know it, I know it, my doctor reminds me all the time, my jeans complain, yeah … it’s a process. I’ve tried giving it up. In fact, I went an extended of time and then I made the mistake of “cheating” or I think I said something like, “I’ve been doing really good, one won’t hurt…” and that was all she wrote. Boom, renewed addiction and I was hitting the grocery store on the way home for a few twelve packs and literally thought about hiding them from my husband so he wouldn’t take them to work and give them away. That’s pretty sad, isn’t it? Is it bad to drink five cans of soda a day? Hmm… don’t answer that.

I kept telling myself that it was okay, I was comfortable with my body, my clothes were fitting well, and I was eating rather healthy so adding soda back in to my diet wouldn’t be a big deal. Yeah, my jeans disagreed. I had to break into those “other sizes” in my closet and for the life of me I couldn’t figure out why. I was eating healthy, still walking, hmmm… and my husband started noticing my consumption when I was finishing one drink and popping open another can. Not good.

So, I decided to take control! I limit the days that I am allowed to have soda. On those days, I have to up my water intake to compete with the additional sodium that I am introducing to my body. I have a set amount that I allow myself to drink and I don’t go over that amount. Yeah, for a while I almost had to have my husband lock the soda up and give me drink tickets. Pathetic! I know … shhh… don’t judge, we all have our thing. I am fairly controlled now, I am back to my regular jean size, I drink soda on my designated days and in moderation, and I actually feel better. Seriously, this stuff can have some nasty side effects. Anyway, the point is, I created a plan or goal that I could live with, one that I found reasonable, executed it, and I am still able to enjoy something I love, I don’t feel like I am punishing myself, and I feel like I’ve accomplished my goal. WIN!

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Food. Oh boy. Okay, so I like food, like, a lot. I’m pretty sure that is human nature; especially since we need it to survive. The problem is I don’t always make the best choices when it comes to what I am introducing into my body. Cold pizza for breakfast, chocolate for dinner … sure, that was workable when I was in college and walking campus all day long but now that I am more sedentary, not so much. The problem is, I’m not a fan of diets and the reason is that I have yet to find one that actually works for me. Now, don’t get me wrong, I’ve managed to lose weight on every diet I have ever tried but as soon as I start adjusting that diet, I tend to gain back all the weight I have lost and then some. Besides, anytime I am on a diet I feel as though I am cheating myself, I’m starving myself, and in all honesty, sometimes I have been. For me, diets don’t work because they I see them as a short term fix to a long term situation. For me, it is better and easier to make choices when it comes to what I eat. I eat lower fat proteins, leafy greens, get my servings of fruits in, drink water, and hit the carbs on my plate last. Then, if I want ice cream for dessert, I have it! No, not every night but on occasion because then I don’t feel like I’m cheating myself. Or, if I want to bake cookies during the holidays or cupcakes for my daughter’s birthday, I can without feeling guilty or like I owe the diet gods an apology. One of the first changes that I made was subbing in turkey in place of hamburger or pork as often as possible. It’s great for burgers, spaghetti, casseroles, pizza, and breakfast. I’ve also found a product that allows me to cut time, Johnsonville® Fully Cooked Breakfast Sausage TURKEY! This is a protein-packed and easy-to-prepare fully cooked sausage that is able to go from the microwave to our plate in 30 seconds. There are 8g of protein per serving (2 links), no fillers, no MSG, and has 70% less fat than cooked pork sausage. We are getting much needed protein, taking in less fat, it’s convenient, and we aren’t losing out on quality since Johnsonville is a trusted name in our home. It’s also easy to pop in the microwave and ready to go in seconds, even on days when we are running behind on leaving for school.

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Last but certainly not least …. Me. The bottom line is I changed how I looked at things. No, it isn’t something that happened overnight but it is something that I am practicing. I’m learning to say no more often. I’m learning to accept the person that is inside my skin. Every day I try to remind myself that I am human and I’m not perfect. I will make good choices and bad choices; the hope is that the good outweighs the bad. Sometimes I will turn down the piece of chocolate cake and other times I will lick the plate clean. I will see something different every day when I look in the mirror and that is okay, we are constantly in motion. There is so much more but I am just working on me. This year, I plan to continue working on me, how I see the world, and taking each day … a day at a time.

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It’s time for a new year and in turn, a new me. Live. Laugh. Love.

Here is wishing you an amazing 2016 full of choices! What changes would you like to make?

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18 comments

Linda Manns Linneman December 20, 2015 - 7:36 am
I really needed this little pep talk. What a great way to think. I am great at procrastinating. I love this idea of yours.. I drink alot of Coke and I know it is not good for me. Thank you so much for this pick me up.
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Heather Pfingsten December 22, 2015 - 3:08 pm
Here is wishing us both great success in the new year!
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jo n December 20, 2015 - 9:33 am
We are working on giving up the pop again too. Stuff in there is so nasty for us. I have changed to Zevia since it is made with stevia instead of artificial sweeteners. I can't guarantee it is any better, but the ingredients look much better to me. I am a feeder and have to cut back on that and change to more veggies. Yes, our house is a work on progress for the health overhaul.
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Dee Lafrenz December 20, 2015 - 10:59 am
I found walking was my thing also. Did the memberships, now we live out in the middle of nowhere, and there are no gyms. Looking for a treadmill to keep me going in the winter, lots of snow here. Thanks for the reminder, I need to get moving again.
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Heather Pfingsten December 22, 2015 - 3:10 pm
Good luck, my friend. Wishing you all the success in the world!
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lisa December 20, 2015 - 11:28 am
I call it soda. I think pop is a northern thing. I never make resolutions. I don't see the point. I don't think I ever did. There again, I don't bake for the holidays either. I really don't do anything different.
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Heather Pfingsten December 22, 2015 - 3:10 pm
We tend to eat richer foods and yes, baked goods... dang blangit yummy foods! ;)
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Sandra Watts December 20, 2015 - 8:28 pm
I gave up on New Years resolutions too. I like your idea of baby steps through life. :)
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denise low December 21, 2015 - 7:56 pm
Our plans for 2016 is to get in better shape. We also need to start eating better
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lisa December 26, 2015 - 11:47 am
It's really difficult to stay on track when the kids are young. They need to eat and snack, so who cooks, mom of course.When the foods there it's tempting.Now that the kids are adults I don't cook. My husband has to remind me to eat.
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Jodi Hunter December 26, 2015 - 7:53 pm
I wish you luck in the new year, keep the wonderful posts coming.
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rebeccabasset December 29, 2015 - 2:21 am
I don't usually make resolutions, but last Year I promised to drink more Water, I am drinking more but not enough, I will try to do better, but I really like your steps to take it one Day at a time. Thanks for sharig!
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Linda Manns Linneman December 31, 2015 - 12:21 pm
I am taking your advice on this. I think it makes alot of sense. I hope you and your family have a wonder and blessed New Year.
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Michele Ash January 13, 2016 - 1:43 am
Thanks for the Wonderful Review on New Year. New Me! I gave up on resolutions a long time ago as well! I know that I don't necessarily eat the way I should be, however, I hate diets! I always feel like a failure every time I start one! Plus, I was doing really good when I was first diagnosed with diabetes and ate more than I normally did! They want you to eat breakfast, a mid morning snack, lunch, a mid afternoon snack, dinner, and a snack approximately 1 hour before bedtime! I was losing weight but I was eating more than I actually wanted to! Plus, I hate certain veggies and cannot get them down no matter how hard I try! With all my "family" problems this year (the worse it's ever been!), I didn't make any cookies or fancy desserts at all! I did make nut roll to give to the neighbors and cherry cheese tarts as well! My husband took the majority of the tarts to work and I think I ate maybe 3 at the most. I have had some nut roll as well and the ones which are left are in my freezer! I've been eating more salads and I finally got the hubs to take me to Produce Junction, where I purchased cucumbers, lettuce, onions, oranges, bananas, strawberries, and a bag of shelled peanuts for him! It only cost me $13 for all that! There is so much though! So, instead of eating junk after dinner and while I'm up to God knows how long on the computer here, I'll have fruit instead of chocolate! I've been craving chocolate so bad! I love your idea that you are moving and eat right as well. I really enjoyed reading your review and how you are handling yourself! Thanks so very much for sharing New Year. New Me with all of us! I honestly do appreciate it and it makes me feel better about how I'm handling things as well! Thanks again! Michele :)
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lisa January 14, 2016 - 11:05 am
New year, same old me. I think people make resolutions to have hope for something better. I don't think it magically happens. Just make a decision and try to follow through.
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lisa February 19, 2016 - 11:45 am
This year if I do anything, it would be getting to the cleaning tasks that I keep putting off. My bedroom closet is a mess. Last time I gave it a good cleaning, I found so many items that I had forgotten about. It was like going shopping.
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KATE SARSFIELD March 8, 2016 - 11:00 am
It's so easy to get stuck in the proverbial rut and sometimes we just need a good shake up to see what's really happening. I used to eat icecream. Every day. That was until I broke my leg & had to get my sister to do the grocery shopping for me. That's when I realised just how much of the stuff I was getting through and no way was my sister going to find out! These days, I don't buy it at all and don't feel the craving for it. I tasted some the other day and found it way too sweet!
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Dotty J Boucher May 6, 2016 - 1:12 am
I have made so many promises to myself when it comes to Jan, So I decided not to make those promises but to agree to work closer to my goals for the year.
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