Come on ladies, I’m sure there has been a time in most of our lives when we wanted to know “How to get my husband to listen to me.” Let’s face it, men say we are difficult. They are just as difficult as we are. Therefor, in my opinion it’s not one certain gender that is more difficult to communicate with, it’s that we are both different and there are things we both need to do so we’re able to keep the important lines of communication open.
There are some things we as women can do to help improve communication with the men we love, but this has to be something you want to do. First off we already know guys and gals think differently, we do from the time we are little kids. The only thing that happens is the gals grow up, and the men don’t lol. Okay, not really they do grow up, I couldn’t help myself. Do you really think a man is ever gong to learn to communicate in our language if we don’t change it up a little. Now, I’m not saying a total makeover, just a few little tweaks to help the men in our lives understand us.
So what are some things us ladies can do to help our husbands or boyfriends understand us better?
No more hinting
Oh come on admit it, you’ve done it. You might even still be guilty of doing it that’s okay it’s time to change that. Other women might understand you’re hints, but it’s very unlikely the man in your life is going to understand something like this:
“WOW, I had a long day today. I’m so sleepy and cannot wait to go to bed. I’m not sure what we’re going to have for dinner.” YOU CANNOT get upset if they don’t offer to bring dinner home, or make something for you. Stop hinting and say it.
“Babe I’m so sleepy, my day was really long. Is there anyway you can pick something up for dinner.” There you have it, any good guy will bring dinner home to his lovely lady. I know my husband does, I did the hinting too not to worry. I know it doesn’t work.
Don’t treat him like he is a child
I don’t this all of us do this, but there’s some that do. I’m sure you have seen it with your own eyes. Let’s face it your husband or boyfriend has a mom, he doesn’t need another one. Don’t tell them what they can and cannot do. If you don’t want them to do anything simply ask them and respect their decision. If they’re doing something that hurts you, or you don’t trust them maybe you need to take a long look at your relationship
Change for the better
Change you’re life to live like you’re in a relationship You now have a partner, an equal someone to make decisions with. Treat this person as you want to be treated. Most men live to please their wifes, if they see you walking in the right direction if things are supposed to be they will follow.
Don’t nag them to pieces
Nobody wants to be nagged to death. Would you like it if you’re husband followed you around nagging about everything you did? It will not change anything, and even if you do get your husband to do what you want by nagging it’s not likely he will stick around for it for too long. It wont take long before they f
Rather than wasting your time waiting for you husband to change, take the first step. If you love them, and they are special to you, than they’re worth it. What’s the worst that can happen? I doubt trying will make things worse than they were when you started, at least you will know you gave it your best shot.